If you really want to make your Ex want you back again then you need to follow these steps carefully. Making your Ex want you back again is not necessarily difficult, but it does take some thinking and some planning if you really do want to get the results you seek.
#1 - Though it may seem counterintuitive when rekindling the relationship is what you seek, if you want to make your Ex want you back you need to begin by cutting off communication for a while. This is going to be tough, and it may even feel as if it is killing you, but it will be killing her even more. After a little bit of time she will begin to realize how much she really needs you, and how much she desperately misses you. Cutting off communication is one of the biggest and most vital steps in rekindling things with your ex.
#2 - Allow yourself to recover emotionally. If you want to learn how to get her back, you need to take the time to become emotionally controlled and calmed down. Women dislike men who are desperate, clingy or needy, so pull your life together and get over those feelings long before you consider trying to draw her back in to your life.
#3 - Flirt with someone new. This is another step that may seem counterintuitive in nature, but it is extremely useful if you are trying to make her want you back. Women tend to get attracted to what they think they can 't have. Start talking to another girl, because it will be too much for your ex to bear. Not only will this benefit you because it will take some of your stress away, but it will also let your ex girlfriend think that you are moving on, which will make her jealous and cause her to realize how much she really wants to be with you.
#4 - Behave as if nothing is bothering you. In other words, if you want to learn how to get her back, you need to play it cool. She is not going to want to take you back if you are feeling and behaving depressed. You need to make sure that you are behaving as if you are having a good time, overcoming the break up depression to let her know that everything is okay.
#5 - Always look your best. Make sure that you are dressed to kill and look your best all the time. She won't be able to resist you, hands down. Appearance can play a large role in showing your ex that you're moving on and look great. If you look great and take the time to look your best, your ex will notice, and will respond positively.
These are just the beginning steps to make your Ex want you back again. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.
How To Get Your Ex Back After a Long Time of No Contact
Do you miss the good times? You probably are and that's why you are here. Even though you’ve had a break-up, you still have not figured out how to get over the person neither do you know where to start to win back your long time love. I don't blame you, who wouldn't? What you had together was priceless and you can't erase those memories.
It's been how long now? Several months or is it years and worse still you have had no contact whatsoever during the time you were both apart. The very thought on your mind is would your Ex want you back after such a long time. You should really think hard about the relationship and your ex before you do anything. Think about how things were and how they will be now. Try to be as unbiased as you can. You might decide that the break-up really isn’t a bad idea. But remember after the long thought, your decision will make or mar the relationship from this point on.
If you decide to try to win back a long lost love, the first step is to apologize. You might think well I have already done this. You might have said you were sorry several times. But if your ex thought you were apologizing just to stop a break-up, he or she might not think the apology was sincere.
If you were the one who did something that you need to apologize for, apologize again. Now they might think the apology is sincere, because nothing hinges on it. If the relationship has ended, you won’t be saying it only to save it but they will believe that you really mean it. (And hopefully, you do.)
When your ex was the one who did something worth apologizing for, then rather than try to get a sincere apology from them, forgive them. You may never forget, especially if your break-up was because of cheating, but you must learn to forgive. Forgiving is much harder for some of us than merely saying, “I forgive you,” though, so you might want to read a book or two on forgiveness and how to really mean it. If you want to win back lost love, this step will help you do it. And it can help prevent problems in the future, too.
If you do succeed and you win back lost love, 3 or 6 or 9 months into the newly patched relationship, old issues might come up. If you haven’t forgiven the person for whatever was done to break up the relationship, then you might have a hard time getting past everything. Old wounds would be reopened and it’s likely that hurtful things would be said.
But if you can truly forgive the person, then there won’t be any need to rehash the past. While you’re working on forgiving him or her for whatever happened to cause the break up, forgive them for the break up itself and you’ll save yourself lots of grief down the road.
Also, to win back lost love, show the person the "you" they fell in love with, not the “you” that has been dumped. They were with you because you have certain qualities—kindness, thoughtfulness—not because you’re angry, jealous or hurt. While you might not be able to hide the hurt, concentrate on being the best "you" you can possibly be and you may win back lost love by reminding them why they loved you in the first place.
Remember, If you do get your Ex back after such a long time, things will never be the same as they were. Try not to dig up the past, don't worry about what each other have done. Treat it as a new relationship and since you both know your likes and dislikes it will be your chance for a very romantic fresh start!
But wait before you get carried away, you need to contact your Ex first, watch this short video to learn the exact words to say when you pick up the phone to connect with them again, trust me you do not want to spoil this move.
It's been how long now? Several months or is it years and worse still you have had no contact whatsoever during the time you were both apart. The very thought on your mind is would your Ex want you back after such a long time. You should really think hard about the relationship and your ex before you do anything. Think about how things were and how they will be now. Try to be as unbiased as you can. You might decide that the break-up really isn’t a bad idea. But remember after the long thought, your decision will make or mar the relationship from this point on.
If you decide to try to win back a long lost love, the first step is to apologize. You might think well I have already done this. You might have said you were sorry several times. But if your ex thought you were apologizing just to stop a break-up, he or she might not think the apology was sincere.
If you were the one who did something that you need to apologize for, apologize again. Now they might think the apology is sincere, because nothing hinges on it. If the relationship has ended, you won’t be saying it only to save it but they will believe that you really mean it. (And hopefully, you do.)
When your ex was the one who did something worth apologizing for, then rather than try to get a sincere apology from them, forgive them. You may never forget, especially if your break-up was because of cheating, but you must learn to forgive. Forgiving is much harder for some of us than merely saying, “I forgive you,” though, so you might want to read a book or two on forgiveness and how to really mean it. If you want to win back lost love, this step will help you do it. And it can help prevent problems in the future, too.
If you do succeed and you win back lost love, 3 or 6 or 9 months into the newly patched relationship, old issues might come up. If you haven’t forgiven the person for whatever was done to break up the relationship, then you might have a hard time getting past everything. Old wounds would be reopened and it’s likely that hurtful things would be said.
But if you can truly forgive the person, then there won’t be any need to rehash the past. While you’re working on forgiving him or her for whatever happened to cause the break up, forgive them for the break up itself and you’ll save yourself lots of grief down the road.
Also, to win back lost love, show the person the "you" they fell in love with, not the “you” that has been dumped. They were with you because you have certain qualities—kindness, thoughtfulness—not because you’re angry, jealous or hurt. While you might not be able to hide the hurt, concentrate on being the best "you" you can possibly be and you may win back lost love by reminding them why they loved you in the first place.
Remember, If you do get your Ex back after such a long time, things will never be the same as they were. Try not to dig up the past, don't worry about what each other have done. Treat it as a new relationship and since you both know your likes and dislikes it will be your chance for a very romantic fresh start!
But wait before you get carried away, you need to contact your Ex first, watch this short video to learn the exact words to say when you pick up the phone to connect with them again, trust me you do not want to spoil this move.
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